thoughts of "my foremothers"

as these days start and end, my mind just keeps going back to all the women before me....
the pilgrim mothers, the pioneer mama's, indian sues out on the plains...
how did they make it?

from sun up to sun down how did they keep their sick kids alive, make meals, do laundry,
respond to email, and answer the phone?

i need a spa day..... any chance this might be coming my way!

How to get your child to submerge in oatmeal.....




Bribe with donuts!

Matt resorted to bribing abigail with a krispy kreme donut to get her to sink herself in the bath last night. it worked.
(aunt megan, brought over donuts last night in hopes of brightening the day)

ANOTHER ONE BITES THE DUST!

outbreak #4 of the famous ethiopian chicken pox!

abigail camille yonan has fallen to the pox- she is high with fever.
and we are praying it will be a fast episode.

madeleine gray is ALL poxed out- poor thing, or should we say rudolph the red nose reindeer.
yep a big one right on the end of her nose. not good for a 12 year olds self esteem.

dixon tommorow maybe and then wouldn't we have a funny picture.

what is this you say......




well, we yonan's have been infested with flying things lately.
so we have resorted to yes, fly paper.

NO JOKE! fly paper.

have a good laugh on us.

outbreak #3.....

yep.... it's arrived!!!!
madeleine the great care taker of jonah has finally got the spots.
we are glad that we are progressing along here with checking off this box of childhood illness that we have tried
to get for years.

just praying that the other 2 come down quickly.

check out my favorite back pack!

"wooshaw wooshaw!"= "Doggie Doggie"
nope not a dog but he sure does love this back pack.....
his new favorite after bath attire.

favorite sentence of the day:
as abigail was picking (yep with a pick) out fitsum's hair
she said "mom, i just love that we have jonah and fits!"
thank you Lord!

the best time of the day.....


the  boys are stripping before they even reach the bath tub, screaming all the way- and they never stop smiling the entire bath. wish everyone could see this joy. and to think we couldn't even get them to sit in the bath tub less than a month ago!

not sure if you can see it from there but yes Jonah has a HUGE cavity on the front of his right eye tooth. yeeks, it  matches all the other cavities, maybe 9 or so!

first harvest!

exciting news!!!! 
it's july 24 and we have finally had something to harvest in the garden.
dixon the diligent gardener has been faithful in every way to our dear garden; watering,
fertilizing, weeding, pruning, staking, and such. 
our mouths water when we gaze upon the pending fruits of his labor.
thank you popsie for all the love and attention+ the good tomato gardener genes.

talk to yourself, don't listen to yourself....

we encourage you to watch this video. so much of what it shows gives testimony to how we have felt about our time in Ethiopia. we have so much in america, don't get me wrong, i'm the girl that sang "God bless America" upon my return home, but we have to think everyday and tell ourselves the truth about where does joy come from? how do we find joy?

it can't be based on circumstance.... it can't! there just would be no hope to ever have joy.

our joy and hope is in the one who came to save us.... matt and amanda, the lost. Jesus came to earth and gave His life to show us how to know the Father. we don't have to have organized closets, obedient children, money in the bank, a wheat free diet, a dog that sits on command, or any other sign of success, we just have to trust that He is the one that saves us from our sin and gives us a future with Him for eternity.

that's joy!



the current yonan top 10.....

1. the sound the car makes when it unlocks.
2. automatic doors... that's a mystery.
3. shopping carts!!! big fun.
4. butterflies
5. BANANAS...... way too many of them.
6. being rubbed down with oil every night and having lots of products applied to different spots.
7. mom and dad kissing
8. peeing on the toilet seat.
9. plasma car... the problem is we don't have 5!
10. opening the car door at high speeds.

 have to add #11. having dinners brought to my house every night. what a true act of kindness.
 

mission accomplished!

sign of a great weekend, sunshine, front yard,
plasma car, speeding down the hill, dad watering the front flowers,
kids soaked to their undies, screaming for joy
begging for more, perfect peace and unity,
memories like this.... priceless!

today at the pool.....

just a normal day at the downing house pool (a local house donated for ministry with a pool), a few moms meet there for some pool time in a low key environment. i was in the pool and this mom that i had not met and i started talking. she had also adopted from ethiopia. she asked what agency we used... i said "all gods children!"
she quickly said "me toooo!" and the screaming began.
both of us hugging and amazed.
our boys, the same age as fits had been at the same orphanage. the same special mother.
the SAME habits, tendencies. we had the best time sharing stories and advice.

this was such an amazing gift to me today!
thank you Lord. He knows what we need, and this was such a blessing to me today.

man can not live on bread alone.....

can you see the love in his eyes?
this picture doesn't do the event justice. but fit's was in his "happy place" stuffing corn muffins into his mouth. he had eaten a large dinner of salmon, edamame beans and corn salad- seriously, i'm not joking!
his dessert... dabo/bread/corn muffins.
he's a lucky guy isn't he?

he said it.....

not sure if he meant it but tonight.....
jonah said " i love you!" to me.

i was shocked. i am honest about our situation.
not his favorite parent. maybe don't even make the list.

but tonight he showed me the sign language and then said.... " i love you".

big day. i'm gonna right this one down. july 18th, 2009!


it's not all about food, but it sure helps!

huge huge huge night for these boys.... 

they ate salmon, corn salad, and edamame beans. yep three colors. can you believe it?
hand over fist into their mouths. 

"gobez"/"brilliant" all around!

also big... jonah is calling himself "jonah" not Yonas. 
you could say he's found  himself. can you imagine how hard this is? little does he know it's the same name, but he is adjusting and we love him. 

he called "mommy" today when  he got hurt!
yep, today was a big day!

to any of you who wonder.... yep, five is constant. i'll never be the same.
 and i am praying matt becomes ill, paralyzed or dumb before monday so he never has to go back to work. shhhh. don't tell i said those terrible things!

just can't say it ever gets boring around here.....

NOPE, never does! 

today we began phase II of the never ending kitchen remodel nightmare.
so we have begun our time with no kitchen and it is just so funnnnnnn. 
just kidding. no it's not fun.

AND.... drum roll please- phase II of the chicken pox from Addis Ababa! 
so fun.
just kidding, not so fun! 
especially for poor Jonah, who can't figure out what is happening to his body.
i'll be sure to send pictures in the AM. his body is COVERED, way worse than Fitsum.
only upside.... he needs me. daddy's boy will have to turn to "Amaye"/mom.

my only prayer at this point is that we don't have these darn pox for the rest of the summer. please Lord let the three big kids get them at the same time....  

mercy mercy mercy please.

break throughs everywhere.......

wow. this is a big one!
last night, jonah ate SALAD. yep.... you are reading right.
the boy that won't even eat a blueberry, plum, peach, melon, or tomato..... 
big bites of spring mix, no less. that squirly kind of lettuce that tickles the inside of your mouth.... watch out sushi here we come.

two worlds coming together......

when the boys came home, we quickly started playing the one and only cd that we had from ethiopia. it was a sort of traditional praise music. the kids and i played it every day for months as we waited for "our missing parts". we certainly did have a favorite song, although never knowing the meaning, it was a heartfelt song with an upbeat tempo.

low and behold...... guess who knows every single word and even adds in the drum beats?
yep, jonah yonan!
isn't that amazing..... as we were pining for him in ethiopia he was listening to "our song".

why are we surprised..... i have no idea. this was His story for our family before time, but it's oh so sweet to be the recipient of gifts like this dear boy singing his heart out(in amharic), Lord willing truths that are already written on his heart.
thank you Lord, for you are good. ps.... at the end when he starts whispering.... do you think this might be because the song talks about making a latte... maybe he'll be my next barista!

so much wondering......

sometimes, when the boys get a foggy look in their eyes, and it is obvious that they aren't "here"- i can't help but wonder what they are thinking. 
do they wonder where all the sights and sounds of home have gone? no chanting or dogs barking in 10 days, no goats waundering around the streets, smells of B.O. are limited, all these white people, english everywhere, crazy food, so many people wanting to hug and kiss me, saying "thank you" all the time...... come on that's alot!

when we were in addis, i tried to let them soak it all in.... letting them just watch life around them as it went by outside our gates, praying they would remember the life that would quickly fade away and be replaced by all that is the u.s. i will always remind them that they should be so proud to be ethiopian- for all the crazy things that are this "homeland" of theirs, there is a beauty and gentleness that they will certainly miss.

learning something new everyday.....

madeleine took it upon herself to introduce jonah to his bike.
she got out the bike- the one she learned to ride.
she went to the hill- the same one she learned on.
she put on the helmet- not the same one his head is too big.
and she went about teaching him- the same way all 3 yonans learned.
sooooo cute! love love love her.

dabo!

this is my son.... an hour or 2 before meal times, he goes to the cabinet, gets a plate out and starts following me around with it, saying "Dabo"/"Bread"! starts off the same way every time, subtle and quiet and then it increases into an all out panic of desperation.
honestly i think his brain might be detoxing from all the wheat he ingested in the last 6 months- is that possible? the first thing he does when i get him out of the crib is point and say "dabo".
thoughts?

miller girls, love from ethiopia heading your way........ keep a look out!

The "Coming Home" video!!!

I thought this would be fun for you to see. It's a slideshow of the photos of when my mom, dad & brothers got to the airport. I hope you enjoy it. Dixon

family, friends,forever



wish you all could have been there today as Jonah met George. they sat down right away on the same chair and started talking; george asking questions and jonah answering. mind you they do NOT speak the same language. what could be better? and sweet molly gray loved up fitsum with too many kisses to count.
what a treat for kids to have cousins.

the pool- BIG HIT! the boys were in hog heaven.









can you hear it......?

the screaming that is.....
yep we've checked that box.
our first big screaming tantrum. Fitsum wrestled with that car seat for 20 minutes on the way to the pool. the poor other 4 just sat quietly praying he'd stop and the noise would go away!

yonans.... do you see the double ll farm stand t?


today is a very sad day for our family! we recieved the call you never want to get.... our dear friend jimmy nakama, husband to grae, father to emmitt(12) and eva(9), friend to everyone- died yesterday in a tragic rafting accident. we are heartbroken and overwhelmed with sadness for our friends. these 2 little sweeties on the right of the above picture are now without a daddy and my friend grae will spend her remainding days without her husband, high school sweatheart, the only man she's loved!
what do you say? what can you do? what will ever make this better?

things that matter to us and to Him!


this video puts faces to the facts. it's worth every penny of support they receive. we visited while in Addis and it's the real thing. these kids need us- need support, advocates and prayer. these sweet children truly are the "least of these". take a minute!

our prayer is that He will move us and break our hearts for these little ones.... 

this ones a keeper!

my sweet dixon, who was a big catalyst for this adoption and cheerleader through the process, while passing me in the kitchen
said "mom, i'm living my dream!.... having brothers, it's great!"

thank you Lord!
i just love my kids- they have such clear perspective and big hearts filled with grace as we all learn what it is to live as a party of 7! they are teaching me what love looks like.


ok seriously......

children all over africa are starving.... did fitsum eat all of their food?
but kidding aside, this is picture proof of what happens to your body if you eat too many simple carbs. look he has celulite on his chest and he's only 2! 
2 easy words........ bootcamp baby!!!!

promising...... pictures of the yonan 5 tomorrow. (it's really  a hard task..... don't know amharic for " line up" and "smile"- although i do find myself saying...."queso" alot!)

Ode to Childhood!



BUBBLES, BUBBLES and more BUBBLES! is there anything that is better for kids; especially when you don't have to share with 40 other young children. We are having fun playing and exploring daily life together. Chicken pox are

on the mend, and last night was our first night of 9 hours of sleep. Amazing what that will do for a gal!



full once more......!

I ALWAYS sit my little ones on the counter. Against many complaints, advice and suggestions I have always done it this way... and once more my counter is FULL!

Today, we off to see Dr. Jerry, our favorite pediatrician. We can't wait to hear what he has to say about the boys.  Maybe we should take Madeleine along as it seems we have a bit of the stomach flu around here, or maybe food poisoning... not sure.

xoxo- amanda

We are home!

After 30 hours of travel (almost to the minute), we are home. We'll update soon....but you can click under gallery at the top right to see our photo album. When you click it takes you to another site and choose the "Ethiopia Trip" album.

M

We are on the way!


Today was better. We are on our way to the airport in just 30 minutes. We are very excited. It was sunny nearly all day. We mainly stayed at the hotel but had a very nice visit with Samuel (pronounced samwell). This is the man whose agency partners with ours to bring kids to better places. He gave us a tour of his orphanage. It was a blessing.

Fits is doing a bit better but is holding out on eating for the most part. Nothing serious. Just being willful.

We are thankful that today has come.

A Big Surprise

#1 Pox Mania- all over Fits’s face this morning:), very sad.

#2 Meeting had a big surprise…Mesfin the birth dad, did a surprise drop by. Yep! We were shocked! Meeting was extremely emotional, but in all things the Lord was there in big ways. Mimi, the birth mom, prayed over the boys and she shared their stories, dreams and history. She is truly AMAZING. We will have no trouble loving her and sharing her goodness with our boys. The boys handled all of this amazingly.

#3 When asked why they chose the name Yonas, Mesfin said “well, because I love the story of Jonah in the Bible!” Of course, I burst out crying because of the 3 names that have the same meaning as Yonas in English, we chose Jonah. See what I mean? Blessing upon blessing despite the heartbreak and drama.

We are stretched and tired. We’ll never be the same but we’re ready to be home. Our kids, normal food, no nighttime chanting (praise Jesus), normal shower- we’ll share more, my kids, clean pj’s. God bless America land that I love! Can’t wait to share it all!

Did I mention I miss my three yo yo’s?

Love overflowing,

Amanda and Co.